Talking with my students, this question is roughly the equivalent of the “good guy bad boy” choice in American culture. Here’s what my kids had to say in answer (my favorites are in bold):
If we choose someone we loved we will get hurt deeper after us break up with our girlfriend or boyfriend. I think girls should be protected so girls should choose someone love her. Why we don’t have someone we loved and also love us?
I will choose the one who love me most. If I choose the one I love most will lost myself. He doesn’t love me I will feel very sad. So I will choose the one who love me most. He can give me what I want.
I will choose the one I love, because if I chose the one I love I will feel happy every day. I can give my lover all I can give. And I think I will be a better man if I chose the one who I love (although this was written by a girl)
I prefer choosing a boy who I fall in love with he. I think we should follow our heart.
Why are girls always asked this question?
I think this problem is popular in China. For this problem I will choose someone I love. Because I think if I can’t let him whose I love loves me, I will never get happiness. So I will choose my love and try to let him love me.
I think my answer is the one who love me. Because I think if he loves me more than I love him, it’s more easy to deal with, I will be more relate. So I choose the one who love me!
I will choose who I love, the life is too hard, and too boring. If I can’t choose who I love, maybe I will have a pity in my whole life. And I think not so boring that will make that the man who I love cannot fail in love with me one day.
I will choose the one I love. Even if he doesn’t love me. I will be very happy with someone I love. If I live with someone love me but I don’t love him, I won’t be happy, maybe he will be tired of my coldness and it will make him heart broken.
Choosing someone love you. If you choose someone you love, but he doesn’t love you, you will be lonely. If you choose someone who love you, you can spend time talking with him. If you chose someone who love you, he will take care of you.
I will choose someone love me, because the love can be motivated. If you are married you will find your love become more and more happy and you can gained more love.
I will choose the one I love. I hope I can use my love to warm him. I love the people I can pay to be true to him. Feeling cannot be forced.
I will choose the one I love. People’s life is so long. If I do not love him, how can I happy everyday? And also this is a kind of irresponsible.
I will choose the person I love. Because two people to together is the need to move feeling. Although the person who love me will be kind to me, but I don’t want to accept this.
If I choose who I love, maybe I can’t be happy. He doesn’t love me so he can’t take care of me. If I choose who loves me, maybe I’ll hurt him because the man I love is the other one. So I think I can’t choose any one. I’ll wait and find the man I love and also loves me.
I certainly will choose the one who loves me. Maybe it’s a little selfish, but if he loves me and would like to spend much time accompanying me, I think I finally would fall in love with him. But if I chose the one I like, I don’t think I would be happy.
I will choose the person who love me. I think when I need comfort, need accompany. Love my people will appear in the first place. And the person I love perhaps when I need comfort and accompany is waiting for me to comfort. I think the person I love doesn’t love me this is a kind of torture. Moreover, feelings can cultivate. So I will choose to love me. Falling love with a person, let your tears or make you happy. I will choose the later.
I will choose the man I love. Because I think getting married is a happy thing. If we can’t get married with the man we love, there is no significant for us to get married. It’s unfair to us and our partner. On the other hand, as the old saying goes, time is a antidote. Affection can be trained slowly, with time going by, maybe he will fall in love with me at last and be moved by. Therefore, maybe we will fall in love with each other. And we will have a happy ending.
I will choose the person I love and if I don’t love the people together I won’t be happy. Choose the person I love I’ll good to him. I ‘won’t force myself and don’t like people together. There is a saying in china: strong twisting of the melon is not sweet.
In life, perhaps the most common feeling is that the one who loves me, but I don’t love, and I love the people. But his eyes without me. The best love is rare object in the world. How do you choose the one you love and the one who loves you? If there is such a choice question appear in front of you you will choose the one you love, give him a heart and soul? Or choose a person who loves you, enjoy being a person to pay attention to the feeling? Just as someone said, choose a person you love to fall in love. Choose a person to love you spend a lifetime. So if there are two people like this standing in front of you, how do you choose?
I will choose boy who love me. Because I’m a girl. I want me happy, love me boy, he not will hurt me. At least, I’m not cry.